Love and marriage, yesterday and today

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Trakakis, N. N.. (2017). Love and marriage, yesterday and today. Cultura. International Journal of Philosophy of Culture and Axiology. 14(2), pp. 7-36. https://doi.org/10.3726/CUL.2017.02.01
AuthorsTrakakis, N. N.
Abstract

Taking as its starting-point Eva Illouz’s sociological study Why Love Hurts (2012), this paper develops a philosophical framework for understanding love and marriage, particularly in their contemporary manifestations. To begin with, premodern practices in love and marriage during the ancient Greek and Byzantine eras are outlined and contrasted with modern forms of love, whose overriding features are (according to Illouz) suffering and disappointment. To cast some light upon this great transformation in the fortunes of love the discussion takes an axiological and metaphysical turn by placing the transformation within the context of the kind of relational morality and metaphysics proposed by many idealist philosophers.

KeywordsEva Illouz; idealism; love; marriage
Year2017
JournalCultura. International Journal of Philosophy of Culture and Axiology
Journal citation14 (2), pp. 7-36
PublisherPeter Lang AG
ISSN1584-1057
2065-5002
Digital Object Identifier (DOI)https://doi.org/10.3726/CUL.2017.02.01
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